My supervisor has made it clear that I must take time off
from placement. He never said what I had to do with those days, so the
other day I did a bit of pulpit supply for a friend.
This was a strange experience, because all the other times I
have undertaken pulpit supply in the past, I have at least visited the building
at least once before, or have tried to get along and see a service there.
This time I went into the encounter completely blind.
The two churches were located about 10 miles apart, and the
time between the two services, allowing for an hours worth of service was only
15 minutes. I arrived early at the first service so I had time to meet
the organist, discuss hymns etc. As people filtered into the church, I
exchanged pleasantries with some of them, but I wasn’t able to get round all of
them and say hello in person. After the service, I had to hand over my
microphone and make a fast departure to the second church. I didn’t even
have time for a handshake on the door. With it being the summer holidays,
I didn’t have a children’s address, and there was no choir, but I was aware
that my service had to finish in absolutely no more than an hour. The
first service just felt a little constrained, and I missed the pastoral element
of being able to meet with people afterwards. And while there appeared to
be a tray of tea and biscuits laid out, I certainly had no time to join in.
I arrived in time for the second service, aware that all it
would have taken was a tailback on the major road I had to use, for the second
service to be delayed. I had time to come in, find the radio mic, and
have a word with the organist about incidental music, before I had to start
over again. I felt a little less restricted in the second service, and
was able to take things a little slower. I did have time afterwards to
meet people at the door, but there was no cup of tea, so contact with people
was limited to the most basic of pleasantries. They all seemed like nice
folk.
There was an element of a rock tour about the
services. Turn up, do your thing on stage, and then “Elvis has left the
building” without meeting the public. I was there to do pulpit supply,
and I see part of that role as to be there to talk and to listen to anyone who
has issues they want to share. So while I think I did OK with my speaking
part, I may have unavoidably let the congregation down with the listening part.
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